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• Date of Birth? 54
• Sexual Status: straight single man

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Latest Status: thisisharderthancrap

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City: Wichita, Kansas

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Bio: just trying to see who is out there in this big old world, hoping there is someone out there who can balance a sinful/angelic life. Me? I've been around the block a few times, slightly flawed, and believe me, I mean flawed. I've just reached an age where I have come to terms with who I am, instead of trying to cover my tracks and look so average, I've had a lot of responses off this site with little information about myself which makes me suspicios and hopeful. Let me clarify who I am and seperate the wheat from yhe chaff. I'm an old fashioned type guy, yrt since I can remember I've had urges of being dominated/hurt/ect.ect.ect. I get my rocks off and I'm fine, back to old fashioned. This is a very hard love/hate balance to deal with when looking for a relationship, mixed signals to people in one direction, then the next. I'm a good judge of character and very honest, not only about who's interested in me but who I'm compatible with. You see, I've had every relationship I've been in crumble because on one hand I want that Barbie/Ken everything is so good union, but on the other hand are these uncontrolable urges to be dominated, and I'm not really sure thats something I would want my mother to know.As fof what I look like, exactly like Dave Groel of the foo fighters, I know some people say just like and are far off base, but I get mistaken for him constantly when I go out.